Dear Margot,
“After coming out to my family, I feel like they don't accept me. What could I do to mend my relationship with them while not hiding my true self?”
Hey Reader! I see how this could be a very difficult and confusing time, but my best advice I have is to just try and not make a big deal, so be nonchalant about it. I would not say to ignore it, but try not to let your sexuality get between you and your family and vice versa.
I understand that this doesn't apply to all people though, and it's only something you can do for yourself.
The ones who make it a big deal and purposely make you feel left out are the ones you need to distance yourself from. It is very hard to cut somebody out of your life, especially close family at a young age, but not to distance yourself. Although it will suck, and hurt a lot, it is the best thing to do. You do not deserve to be around people who don't accept you as you are.
The best thing to do is to keep your peace, and allow yourself to be happy, not by anyone's standards or expectations, but your own. Because that is what matters the most in life. If they come to their senses, then great, but if not, then so be it.
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